Someone tagged a couple of more photos of me from the party night.. I just look happy there..plus, it also gives a clear image of what i have done during the night, apart from drinking :)
I had lent the movie i have seen yesterday to Dilyana..Ended up our arguing for 1 hour on the movie, about trust,love,cheating...Showed me how significantly my belief for love and trust is low, and how optimistic she is..Either i m pessimistic *i prefer calling it realistic,but its being realistic is scary*, or she is too optimistic or wants to be that way..
Went to see a friend of mine, whom i couldnt talk to propery for a long time although we are on the same campus..we agreed on cooking or baking sth this week, and thought it would be really cool if we could cook every week once, and that way we would alse be keeping in touch,plus cooking is another activity that reduces your stress..
* the first one is shopping, but at this point,i cannot shop..i just went to shopping on saturday,which ended as my my buying one pair of shoes,one casual dark blue skirt, two tops,and some victoria's secret shopping * . 
One of the thoughts i was supporting today was; cheating does not have to be only one fucking another person outside the relation.. it would be the same if one just thinks about fucking someone but doesnt do that... Dilyana sees not doing the "action" , as strength, as not falling into the land of temptations..
The way i see it on the other hand is, when things appear on your brain, whether you commit the action or NOT, it is the SAME... and i dont see "committing the action" as a norm for strength..it can as well be weakness...
***When someone talks a bit unusually, like somehow fucked up conversations occur, you ask them if they have gone to a UWC..And somehow it always results as, "yes,why?"..damn we UWC people..either national committees are wrong at somewhere while choosing students,or we all got evolved or devolved once we go there...***
**I really liked these photos..my skirt makes me look as a female Peter Pan**
Numbness is ahead, I write to defreeze myself..
Hmmm..
Thursday, October 19, 2006
Posted by Tugc at 8:11 AM
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sen oraya gittin ayri bi guzellestin !!!
kapicaklar bizim kizimizi
dünya boş eglen çoş:)
tek bir kelime: WOOOOOOW!!! :)
Interesting pondering, Tugce! I have to side with your friend, though :-) Perhaps i can better illustrate why by trying to apply your thoughts about cheating to other verbs. "Hitting", for example. A couple of times in my life i've gotten so angry at people that i've wanted to kick their asses. That i acted on that desire or not surely made some difference, don't you think? At least to the would-be hittee. And certainly to me. I think that sometimes we can't help what we feel, but we should always be always to help how we act on those feelings.
>d.<
well keyboards is sth important,too..i m sure we can find someone to play the base and the electro :D
>vintage<
tesekkur ederim :) sen yazdiklarimi seviyorsun da ondan oyle geliyordur:) ama kendimi USlilere kaptirmaya pek niyetim yok.
>mustafa<
valla yazilanlar fotodan baya bi farkli aslinda..
>oktay<
tesekkurler.
>mariano<
I dont know, but in my opinion they are both cheating..with the action or without..plus, the brain does some action anyways ;) and the reason it might be weakness is, one can be too weak to confront other's disappointment..
Seninle ayni fikri paylasmayarak bir anlamda kendini kandiran o arkadasina sunu sormani tavsiye ederim: Sevgilisiyle sevisirken onun agzindan baska bir kadinin adi kacsa hala o baska kadinla degil de kendisiyle sevistigi icin sevinip ne kadar iradeli bir erkek oldugu icin sevgilisine hala guvenir mi?
Sadakat beyinde bitmisse eyleme dokse ne yazar, dokmese ne yazar?
Z.
I side with Dilyana.
ingilisçe bilmemenin verdigi cahillik ama bildigim bi şey varsaa
sen çok güselsinn:)
>anonymous<
super bir ornek..iste ben de aynen oyle dusundugum icin beyin ve hareketin cok da onemli oldugunu dusunmuyorum..birinin yapmasi yeterlidir...
>roman<
well, what can i say? different opinions..
>mustafa<
tesekkur ederim.
yorumlardan anladıgıma göre mevzu derin ben kaşık dolusu beynimi yormim en iyisi:)
hep boynuzlanan birisi olarak aldatmak dünaynın en aşagılık işi, aldatılmakta ölümden beter bişi diorum bide sana ii günler diliyorum kardeş:)
hmmm...i think it depends on whether or not the "thinking" of said action takes away from your relationship. B/c if you just think it but are still committed to the relationship then i think it's not cheating - i mean we are humans and will always think about our more animalistic desires. But if you really would act on it or would like to act on it but don't for fear of hurting the person you're in a rltnshp with then that is cheating them and prolly will hurt them and the relationship more in the long run.
Aldatmak cok kotu birsey...en buyuk basitlik... aldatmanin dedigin gibi hem beyinde hem de fiiliyata dokmenin yani sira birde yalan soyleme, sevmiyorken seviyormus gibi yapma filan kisimlari var ki hic girmiyim..
resimlerde cok cici cikmissin, tam citir olmussun:) bu arada pisirdiklerinizin resimlerini cek olurmu? birazda bizim agzimizin suyu aksin :)
>mustafa<
hadi bakalim oyle olsun..mevzu derin baya burda..
>ryan<
well for guys it might seem like that, but for example lets say you are committed and she is committed,too..but still is thinking about someone else at the same time..and when you are having sex, that person murmurs another name other than yours, would your trust be hurt or would you rather be thankful and be happy that your partner has strength that she is not committing the action..? (one of the comment makers wrote this example above,too )
>salincaktaikikisi<
tesekkur ederim..benim malesef ki fotograf makinem yok ama fotograf cekmeye calisicam,soz :)
well if that person murmurred someone else's name during sex my trust would prolly be hurt...good pt...
and on a side note, you should thank all that put together the social for me...it was tons of fun and ya'll did a great job :)
Tugce'cim senin resimlerini sozde bi guzellik yarismasi duzenleyen birisinin blogunda gordum ve cok sasirdim... sen izin verdin mi boyle biseye? sasirdim gorunce oyle birden...
Banu
wallahi guzel çıkmışsın diğer resminden cok daha guzel bu
>ryan<
see? ;)
>salincakta iki kisi<
ya ben onu saka amacli al tabi resim filan demistim, ciddiye mi almis o ? :)
>anonymous<
tesekkur ederim.
"kudurmak" tabir ettiğimiz şekilde bir göbek atma sezdim ben o fotoda :)) oh oh :) sonuçta eminim kurtlarınızı dökmüşsünüzdür :)))
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HAYIRLI BAYRAMLAR:)
KENDİNİZE GURBET ELLERDE ÇOK İİ BAKIN
SİZE BAYRAM ŞEKERİ İKRAM EDEN OLMAZSA BANA MAİL ATIN BEN SİZE BAYRAM ŞEKERİ GÖNDERİRİM:)
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BAY BAY :)
tuğçe yaa..ne güzel dağıtmışsın öyle...ben de eğlenmek istiorummm..ben de gencim güzelim eğlenmek benim de hakkımm:((
kısım..yine party girl olmuşun:D
yakışıo...özüne döndün walla
>emirbey<
evet oyle oldu ama ertesi gun acisi fena cikmisti..
>mustafa<
sagol kaldirdigin icin resmimi blogundan.
>menapozabla<
kim tutuyo ki...? ;)
>burcyni<
ozum party girlluk mu simdi benim ?:)
Valla ablacım senin şu hayatına imrenmiyo degilim arada, sırada..Aileden uzak yaşamanın zevkine varamamış bir insan olarak cuppa cuppa tarzında gezmeni hrrr diyerek izliyorum burdan :)
Ankara'da party vardı da biz mi gitmedik :/
okul doğal olarak dersler...ortam
:((
>irre<
eh, kac git sen de:)
>menapoz abla<
eger okul,dersler olarak dusunursek, benim odamdan disari cikmamam lazim..bu partinin ertesi gunu benim ispanyolca sunumum vardi mesela :)
oyle diil tatlım..yurtdısında sosyal aktivitelere cok zaman oluyor..en azından senin gibi insanlar var gezmeyi eglenmeyi seven partiler vs...ama ne ortam ne de insanlar oyle:(
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